Sick soup coming soon!
Yesterday Kristie got two flat tires -- one went flat then the spare went
During the 2nd AAA visit the tow truck driver kept flirting with me and pulled an "Oh, I hope your husband doesn't get upset!" -- I called Jess, she didn't. Anyway -- I let it go but part of me thought -- I'm gay! Go away!
Also yesterday I picked up something from a butch on freecycle. To me she was obviously gay and there was a familiarity with her as a recognized "family member".
Then I realized I wasn't obvious and she had no idea that I was family. That kinda made me sad* and now I finally kinda understand that invisiblity thing femmes are always bitchin' about.
I still don't really mind the inivisiblity thing -- because I figure that a) Jess outs me b) I get to know the real person before they know I'm gay c) I control who knows d) it's safer in less safe situations.
But a little part of me felt like for a moment I'd love to take off my invisibily cloak (dig the Hairy Pooper reference!)
*Not because I wanted her to hit on me or anything! Don't get it twisted!
Do you know the wicked awesome lez blog called Lesbiatopia? Guess who is their newest addition as a writer?
Yep.
Me.
Woot! Woot!
Renee over at Lesbiatopia is cool people and was on the mylesbianradio.com last nite -- which Jess and I listened too.
Good times.
Good times. :)
To my baby who is home sickly today. Sorry I can't be there squishee... but I'll take care of ya when I get home! :)
Muah!
thanks babe. Next time you pick up anything from freecycle, I'm coming.
the moz is awful!!
Go you for writing on Lesbiatopia :)
Yay for your new writing gig!
I know what you mean about the invisibility cloak. It's nice....sometimes.
You know I think straight butches (yep they do exist) have a tough time too when people always make assumptions that a masculine woman must be gay. People so often confuse gender identity with sexuality and that bugs me too.
Reality is we shouldn't make any assumptions on a persons sexuality by the way they look. Ok rant over...:D
Point taken Joe, point taken. :D
I like the new look, very nice. It's just not the same in the reader :)
This is my favorite look of all your different decorating designs.
I'm at the point where I get a kick out of the fact that everyone assumes I'm straight, unless they see me with Fran. I love shocking them.
Congrats on writing for Lesbiatopia! Hope your baby is feeling well soon!
It'll be good seeing you post at Lesbiatopia. Way to go!
Sometimes I wish I had one of those Invisbility cloaks...
Congrats on the new writing gig!
Congrats on your Lesbiatopia gig! Love the moment of zen, too. Love it :o)
i hear ya on the invisibility thing. i experience it all the time and i hate it. even if i have wifey with me, we still get it cuz she isn't butch either. we get asked all the time if we are sisters or cousins *eye roll*